So I agreed to a second date with the cheerleader. The evening we decided to meet it was pouring rain which makes my hair turn into a major fuzz ball. I tried to alleviate this with the hood on my raincoat but there’s not much to do after a certain amount of damp. We decided […]
My date was scheduled the night after I went out with Mr. Charisma and we had that wild, sensual and sexually satisfying evening. I didn’t get home until 3 and my body was thrumming all night long and well into the morning. I was exhausted and yet I had this drink date set up for […]
A week after the amazing date we were corresponding again. We discussed dancing but then he called me and asked if maybe we could get together after his evening meetings. I mentioned I had a meeting myself and wasn’t available until around 10. We were discussing Thursday, I thought. Later he emailed and asked if […]
This evening I ended up double booking myself. I was at lunch with a friend when he called and suggested getting together on this evening. I already had early drink plans with a girl friend but he suggested a time that was later so I figured I could do both. So I met my girl […]
The system for the online dating site sends out an “it’s a match” note to each party when we like each other with a 4 or 5 star rating. I am not sure how the men use it, but I use it mixed – some are guys that I think are way cute and others […]
He reached out to me after I posted the Edwardian Ball pics. I got a lot of response right after I posted this pic from a very specific demographic. Burners, Edwardian ball people, Steam punkers. Kind of fun. This guy seemed interesting. We have a bunch of things in common so I replied. We talk […]
The interesting thing about online dating is that you can like people and they can like you back – at least your profiles and/or you can message any time. I am taking the approach of someone liking me – either before or after I like them – before deciding to reach out. Sometimes they reach […]
I pick his picture out of the search results and am immediately all swoon. He has a cherubic face and a twinkle in his eye that says he is a trouble maker. Probably was a bit of a hellion in high school in that bad boy good boy sense. He is into water things – […]
He reaches out to me after I post a picture of myself at the Edwardian ball. Steampunk hat and goggles. Cleavage and a roaring smile caught in mid laugh. A couple of notes and we agree to meet for coffee. I pick my favorite place because it is very public and I know someone who […]
For the bulk of the last decade, I hibernated. I was seriously focused on my career and on growing my art practice and the mental energy and selfish energy spent, left little time for anything or anyone else. Now that I am a bit older (I turned 50 this last year) and more relaxed about […]