The cyclist

So I spend some more time browsing on the dating site while I was at the airport coming back from my long weekend conference. One person stands out as a super high match and I reach out . He messages me back and it turns out that we actually know each other – at least […]

Mr. Charisma for lunch again

We meet again for lunch, a week after the last lunch. We head to the same spot for light relatively healthy eats. We have a long discussion about sex, about cuddle parties and play parties and he invites me to come away for the weekend with a group of people for a private, small, intimate […]

The tall poly

He reaches out to me. He is poly and has a primary partner but damn he is attractive. And tall. So I am interested. We chat online a bit and agree to meet. I pick the place – my go-to place in the mission. He is driving in from a little bit south. I end […]

Mr. Charisma for lunch

Since Mr. Charisma is not working in an office on a daily basis, I ask him out for lunch and he texts back – eating lunch or sex lunch? I have doctor appts in the morning and afternoon meetings, so I say I do have to eat but if there is time sex lunch would […]

The cheerleader – part 5

So for our 5th date we go to dinner in my neighborhood at the local sushi place. We eat and chat and it’s feeling a little awkward because I know we are going to come back to my house and have sex for the first time. I have had no issues falling into bed with […]

The gameshow host – part 2

So the gameshow host asks me out to dinner and I accept. He works and lives over in the financial district so he picks a restaurant over there. I take bart and arrive early – so what else is new. I wear my new cute blue skirt, patterned top and heels.  I wait outside for […]

Mr. Charisma – part 4

So our next date is actually dinner. And some shopping. He is going to a rave later in the week and needs an outfit so he asks if I will shop with him. I pick him up from his house after work and he is curious about what I am wearing and gives me a […]

The ex-musician

He reaches out asking if I would be interested in meeting up for dinner and some music. He is in town for a conference and an ex-musician. I say yes and he suggests a couple of places for music and food. We agree to meet there. Once again I am trying out a place in […]

The cheerleader – part 4

So we end up having a fourth date—dinner this time.  He picks me up on his motorcycle again and we ride across the city to his favorite Thai restaurant.  Before we head out there though, he swings by his work to pick up something and ends up giving me a pair of leather motorcycle gloves. […]