So our next date is actually dinner. And some shopping. He is going to a rave later in the week and needs an outfit so he asks if I will shop with him.

I pick him up from his house after work and he is curious about what I am wearing and gives me a hard time about the tights. He had asked if I would wear stockings with no underwear and I had to give him a hard time about the fact that I had just been at work and that wouldn’t have been appropriate. I hadn’t had time to go home and change yet.

But since we had talked about this earlier in the week, and I just happened to have gone to Victoria Secret the night before to get a new workout bra, I sprung for a couple of pair of thigh high black stockings and some sexy lacy underwear. I also went to a couple of other stores and picked up a cute black dress to wear the next time we went out (if we actually made it out).

We head back to my house so I can feed the dog and change. We spend some time kissing in the kitchen and then I head upstairs to change. Cute black dress hitting above the knee, thigh high stockings, super sexy lacy underwear which was almost like nothing on at all. I was tempted but am still getting my mojo back on in terms of daring – so the underwear stayed. High heels. 

I come down and he is suitably impressed. He sits me up on the kitchen counter and we make out some more. I can tell he doesn’t really want to leave but I need dinner. So he makes a joke about moving into the romance portion of the evening and we drive down into the mission. We normally would have walked but with heels it’s tough and he does want to go shopping. 

We get down into the mission and park. He has a list of places to go so we head off to them and end up walking way more than we thought. While we walk he manages to grab my ass a few times and kiss me when we stop at the crosswalks.

A couple of the places are closed but we end up browsing in a couple of stores. He tries on some things but ends up not buying anything.

Then we head back to one of the restaurants he likes and get some food.

After dinner we head back to my place and quickly end up in the bedroom.

I have the most amazing multiple whole body orgasm I have ever had in my life.

Fuck. This guy is an amazing lover.

But he is so cagey about making plans for our next meet up. He is always questioning whether I want sex or romance. I always answer both.

He doesn’t say which he wants or which he is open to giving.

Knowing that would help set my expectations.

Am I a short term dating person, a long term dating person or just a casual sex person with him?

I don’t know.

But damn he is amazing and like crack I have to keep going back for more.