Since Mr. Charisma is not working in an office on a daily basis, I ask him out for lunch and he texts back – eating lunch or sex lunch?

I have doctor appts in the morning and afternoon meetings, so I say I do have to eat but if there is time sex lunch would be awesome.

Sex in the middle of the day.

Wow – its been ages since I have done that.

Actually, I don’t think I have ever done that – always had been too busy working in the past.

I call him after my appts. He is on the other line so is super distracted. He asks me to call when I am leaving – I tell him I am leaving now. I get there about 10 minutes later and call him from in front of his house. He comes out through the garage so I know this is going to be just lunch since he didn’t invite me in. 

Bummer.

We go have a great lunch and over lunch he asks about my other dates. Probing on what we do, if i like it, what I like about it. It is exciting and awkward to talk about this with him. He tells me what he really likes about me and how much he likes that I am an artist – it turns him on to see my projects and how i have put my space together. I am touched by this and all I really want to do is lean over and kiss him.

We finish lunch and he says he wants to walk since he hasn’t been outside yet today. He had a sleepover date the night before and only got up at 11 – so no wonder no sex lunch for me. Damn.

He is super touchy on our walk, holding my hand, kissing me, sliding his hands down the back of my pants. He is getting me all hot and bothered in public again which is exciting and racy. He seems to revel in this and it is exciting to be all groping in broad daylight in public. 

Unfortunately we get back to his place all too soon and he walks me to my car. No come inside, No quickie for the road. I am not happy about this but i have to go to the office and I get no sex to tie me over until I see him again.

I am super horny – probably because I am due to start my period any day and all I can think abut is sex at this point and of course with him, the pheromones are strong and I can hardly contain myself. I get all worked up just thinking about him.

We discuss getting together the next week and again say we are going to compare calendars and schedule since we both seem to have hot and steamy liaisons all week.

I head out of town the next day for a long weekend. My flight is delayed so I call him seeing if we can schedule something but he doesn’t answer and he doesn’t return my voice mail. Friday I text and nothing. So again I am not sure how to read him. He is responsive sometimes, present when we are together talking about future times and activities and then absent. 

Friends say to let it rest and he will come around eventually or he won’t. 

My problem is that I don’t want him to disappear but I don’t know how to navigate the thin thread connecting us.