weekend dates

Drinks dinner and dancing to salsa and Afro Cuban music at the Cigar Club. On the fence about this person but he kisses great and he is an amazing dancer – super turned on but having some reticence with the desired monogamy and the out of type. This leads me to question why I am […]

texts from the photographer

He texts me and says he doesn’t think we are compatible sexually. He says he likes me, feels affection for me but feels like we are not in sync.  I ask if it was about the condoms and the roughness and he says yes. I ask if he had been holding back and he says […]

the scientist follow-up

So after sleeping with the scientist and having one text back and forth, I haven’t heard from him in two weeks.  I am so pissed – I thought he would have been less of a jerk – he seemed so nice.  It’s one thing to decide that we aren’t a fit and to let me […]

the novelist

I had drinks with the novelist in the well appointed hotel bar The Pied Piper downtown.  I arrived on time and he was already there, drink ordered.  As I sit, I have to tell him I will have to run in about 1 ½ hours max because a friend is in need and I promised […]

the photographer engineer

I met him last year right about the time I was starting to see the Explorer. We had had a date and drinks where we spent the majority of the time making out in the bar. He had an amazing touch and was a great kisser.  We were supposed to get together again but he […]

Loving my legs

He reaches out because he really likes the new picture I have posted – my legs in great light. The experiment brings out a lot of creepy guys but some interesting people. I am intrigued because he is really into music and plays in a band and travels to regularly to play and learn. He also has […]

busy schedule

I have managed to schedule dates for every night this next week and on at least one night, I have a two-fer.  Hmm.  I have reconnected with Mr. Charisma, the gameshow host and another man I met last year who totally took my breath away and then I stopped dating.  It’s going to be an […]

the new waver

He reached out to me last year when I was doing the first batch of dating and I never connected with him.  He reached out again last week and I responded this time. We exchanged a lot of texts. A lot. He seems to like texting and to get really graphic sexually in the texts […]

tinder hooking up again

had a great date last night with my tinder hookup again. His last night in town before heading back east. I had sent him a little something to remind him of me (a very tasteful boudoire portrait) in case I didn’t get to see him before he left. He texted me that this was a […]

the scientist – part 2

So after a week of being sick and having to cancel our second date, I finally arranged to meet up with the scientist again.  We decide to keep it low key since he had been sick and I was starting to come down with something.  After all my errands and dog walks, I changed into […]