So after a week of being sick and having to cancel our second date, I finally arranged to meet up with the scientist again. 

We decide to keep it low key since he had been sick and I was starting to come down with something. 

After all my errands and dog walks, I changed into a cute dress and some fuscia flats. About an hour later i decide its too cold for this outfit – especially if we are going to wander around the mission. So I change into my turquoise dress – form fitting but warm and I look awesome in it. I decide to wear my black gold tip ankle boots with a pair of striped socks pushed down so that my legs were bare. I looked hot if I do say so myself. 

He arrived on time and came into the house. I gave him a tour of the studio, the printing press and then the main level of the house. He looked nice – not too dogged from being sick. 

We bantered a bit about places to go and ended up down in the heart of the mission and to a bar that was way too noisy. So we opted to walk down the street to Mission to see if there was something there. We get to El Techo and there is a super long line—of course because it was an amazingly warm for March evening. So we decide to check out the Foreign Cinema next door. 

They are also packed but their bar was opening in 15 minutes so we went to the back bar of the restaurant proper and got a drink and started chatting. This guy does drink, does eat meat and it’s refreshing to have a cocktail or two with someone. 

A bit into our drink, we move to the front bar and get a table right away. He gets menus and I decide to sit close to him on the bench rather than in a chair across the table. 

We order oysters, pork belly and a couple of other things. 

And another drink. 

I ask him questions about his journey and what he is looking for. We compare notes. Have a laugh about the Banye – apparently he once had a first date there in the naked section. Interesting tactic. 

We have another drink and keep talking. He is very smart and sexy. We kiss a bit. 

After we finish, we decide to go and walk back to the car. We stand up and some more kissing happens – i feel like I am in high school again except I am so much more confident. I know what I am doing and what turns me on. 
We hit the bathrooms and in the hallway make out a little bit more. He makes a comment that its like we are the only people in the world – as we kiss. He makes a comment about the zipper on the back of my dress and how much he wants to slowly unzip it exposing my back and shoulders. 

We walked back to his car chatting along the way. And then drive to my house.
I invite him in. We get some water and start kissing in the kitchen. He turns me around and starts to unzip the dress and touch my back. My kryptonite – stops me in my tracks and makes me melt. 

So I take him upstairs and we have a fun time exploring each other. He’s the first person I have been with who is so much older than me – more age difference than when I was dating photo-man from the east coast. 

But I am pleasantly surprised – he is about 6’1” and while I don’t really know what I was expecting, I was more than amazed. 

It was a luscious time and i really enjoyed myself, although he finished before me so we had to adopt a couple of aids to take me through – and it was spectacular – so much build up with all the kissing and the sex and the touching. I was super satiated. He was lovely and considerate and we held each other for a while afterwards, talking. 

Then he needed to leave so we said our goodbyes, and like a cat recently brushed and purring, I curled up and slept the sleep of the dead. 

I sent him a thanks text on Sunday and got a nice note back saying he enjoyed himself and that because of being sick and moving, he hadn’t been 100% – I texted back that if that wasn’t 100% then I can’t wait to experience that – implying that it was fantastic despite so I can only imagine how much better it can be. 

Then nothing. 

A week later and still nothing. 

Shit – I thought we connected. I don’t want to marry this guy but I did have fun and thought it was mutual so I am bummed about this.