He reaches out because he really likes the new picture I have posted – my legs in great light. The experiment brings out a lot of creepy guys but some interesting people.

I am intrigued because he is really into music and plays in a band and travels to regularly to play and learn. He also has a really cute dog.

We talk on the phone one evening and agree to go out the next week.

The appointed day, I head over to his office after my day nearby. I walk over and then text him to clarify and confirm his exact location. He calls me and says yes of course and to come up. I get to his reception area and the receptionist calls and he appears.

We head out for a drink and chat and he tells me all about himself – he is bi-racial. An interesting mix. He isn’t my normal type at all – he is a small wiry man and all I can think about is whether he is small everywhere or one of those surprising men who is slight and small and huge all at the same time.

He asks to kiss me and I say yes and we kiss and it’s nice but I am not feeling the surge of pheromones and lust that I felt with Mr. Charisma or the Scientist. He isn’t taking my breath away.

After a drink we decide to go get some mexican food so we head back to his office, grab the dog and head down into the Mission where we go to a cheap taqueria. We eat and chat — i ask about his family and background. We talk about music and he keeps wanting to hold my hand.

He asks if I will allow him to seduce me. Such a gentleman.

I eventually have to get home to my own dog so I let him drive me home and we agree to go out again. I am not sure if this is a thing but I think it might be interesting to see where it goes and if I feel any interest.