He texts me and says he doesn’t think we are compatible sexually. He says he likes me, feels affection for me but feels like we are not in sync. 

I ask if it was about the condoms and the roughness and he says yes. I ask if he had been holding back and he says yes. Yikes – not sure I could take rougher – especially since I have taken all week to recover. But maybe more lube and experience will help that. 

We do discuss doing a three-way with one of his other girlfriends – we both are interested in this and so is she and so we talk about that a bit. He tells me he likes that I am playful and laugh in bed. 

Then we move into talking about cameras and photo work and comparing notes there. We could go on about this. 

The next day he texts me that he has been thinking about me on my knees looking up at him, doing his bidding. 

He says next time he is going to handcuff me. 

So there is going to be a next time. 

He also has some other requests and this is all a test to see if I will comply – including shaving completely and wearing specific clothes. So far nothing is out of the realm of possibility and our banter back and forth has made me quite horny for him and excited about the prospects of at least two more encounters – one with him alone and one with one of his girlfriends. 

I think next week is going to be exciting.