So frustrating. Had another date with ______ and it was fantastic. We have a drink and dance a little at the house before heading out to dinner. He tells me that he really likes me and I tell him he made the ongoing list for a variety of reasons too – smart sensual music lover and great kisser among other things.

Dinner is fun and romantic and we eat oysters and kiss and talk. Then head out to hear some classical music which was amazing. String quartet – for free at the Revolution cafe. Apparently a variety of classically musicians play there every Monday.

Afterwards we head to my place. We are pretty heated up from some groping in the car before the music and a little after. At my place we start making out and then head upstairs where we strip and end up on the bed.

We kiss and kiss and he goes down on me and there is a lot of touching and stroking and it’s all going well and then we decide its condom time so I get one and he puts it on and loses his erection. Crap. So we try a few things to get it back and it doesn’t happen so we abandon that condom and just go back to the foreplay mode for awhile. Eventually he gets hard again and we try again and no sooner does he put it on then he loses it. 

I get it that men don’t like these things but I am not about to go bare since I am in experimental mode and sleeping with multiple people.

He apologizes and I assure him it’s fine and we can try again another time. He is embarrassed and I try to defuse it. 

He keeps telling me I am beautiful and gorgeous but his body isn’t playing along.

I like this guy and want to keep seeing him but I don’t want another case of no sex.