ex-tech guy

we meet on okc and text a little bit. we set a date a week out and then I have a cancelation so  we move it up a week. I choose my go-to place and when I get there, he is already there. He’s a little smarmier in real life than in his picture. He’s […]

the sales guy

We met on OkC and we set up a date for a coupe of weeks out. We confirmed earlier in the week. I head out to the Mission theater bar and wait and wait. I text him to make sure he knows where I am, and he texts back that he thought it was tomorrow. […]

by any other word – rape

Another lawyer. This will be my third. We meet on okc and text a bit. He spends every other week here in the city and so we set a date 2 weeks out when he is back. The day comes and I wear one of my fun dotted dresses, with white thigh high stockings. I […]

first sleepover

We have a date for Wed. after class. Convenient since school is in the Mission and i’m just down the way. In the morning, he texts me saying he is looking forward to seeing me but asks if I can come down to his place and then he invites me to sleep over. I accept […]

A new experience

Since i changed my profile to include women – or all genders – I have had a couple people “like” me. One was a woman who is trans. We chat a bit in the messaging app and then set a date to meet. We exchange numbers and text a bit before our actual meeting.  She […]

dating a couple

So a few weeks ago, I changed my profile to include searching for women and also being open to couples. A couple liked me and I checked out their profile. They are large people but they really looked happy and adorable together and sounded like fun, so I wrote them. We messaged a bit in […]

the dungeon

he’s been in europe for 3 weeks. we’ve been texting a bit to keep the connection going. When he gets back, he texts me with a couple of ideas for a date. I don’t like a few of them and counter with 2. One is a performance thing, the other is an open night at […]

in a state of ecstacy

He is away for the weekend but sends me a couple of flirty notes. We have tentatively planned to get together when he returns on Monday. Monday morning he texts telling me he got sick over the weekend and feels like crap so needs to have a raincheck. I am sad but take advantage of […]

figuring out who I am

As I have left the second monogamous relationship in 3 years after dating several people at the same time, several who are poly and in open relationships, I find myself on the prowl again. This time though, I am explicitly looking for ethical non-monogamy and people in open relationships or open to being in an […]