So frustrating. Had another date with ______ and it was fantastic. We have a drink and dance a little at the house before heading out to dinner. He tells me that he really likes me and I tell him he made the ongoing list for a variety of reasons too – smart sensual music lover […]

I had another date with ________. I was a bit nervous because he is out of type, generally says he wants monogamy and the is not where I am right now so wanted to make sure I at least have the conversation about where I am. He picked me up and brought me a gorgeous gardenia […]

Drinks dinner and dancing to salsa and Afro Cuban music at the Cigar Club. On the fence about this person but he kisses great and he is an amazing dancer – super turned on but having some reticence with the desired monogamy and the out of type. This leads me to question why I am […]

He texts me and says he doesn’t think we are compatible sexually. He says he likes me, feels affection for me but feels like we are not in sync.  I ask if it was about the condoms and the roughness and he says yes. I ask if he had been holding back and he says […]

So after sleeping with the scientist and having one text back and forth, I haven’t heard from him in two weeks.  I am so pissed – I thought he would have been less of a jerk – he seemed so nice.  It’s one thing to decide that we aren’t a fit and to let me […]

I had drinks with the novelist in the well appointed hotel bar The Pied Piper downtown.  I arrived on time and he was already there, drink ordered.  As I sit, I have to tell him I will have to run in about 1 ½ hours max because a friend is in need and I promised […]

I met him last year right about the time I was starting to see the Explorer. We had had a date and drinks where we spent the majority of the time making out in the bar. He had an amazing touch and was a great kisser.  We were supposed to get together again but he […]

He reaches out because he really likes the new picture I have posted – my legs in great light. The experiment brings out a lot of creepy guys but some interesting people. I am intrigued because he is really into music and plays in a band and travels to regularly to play and learn. He also has […]