We connect on tinder and text back and forth for about a half hour before he finally asks me out. We agree to meet tonight and set a time. I pick my place and we are set. I arrive a bit early – there is a line. It’s gorgeous outside and this place has outdoor […]
So today I met up with a really nice guy. We met at the column in union square.I got there early – as usual – and watched a bunch of kids having a great time dancing up on the stage area. Like a dance party, they had house music going and were dancing as if […]
We connect on OKC. Over the last year I have noticed him checking me out periodically. At one point I decided he didn’t fit what I was looking for and blocked his profile from showing up in my search results. But he persevered over time and eventually I connected with him. Today’s date was sort […]
For real! I get a message in my OK Cupid from a guy who is a professional photographer. Was intrigued by the fact that do photography. He was out of my age range scope but took a chance anyway. Widower. Big time rock and roll / musician photographer. So we spend a few weeks trying to coordinate […]
After a stint in a 6 month exclusive relationship, I find myself back on okcupid. I am both excited and terrified. It’s been so long and I have quickly fallen out of practice in terms of flirting. I am still reeling from the breakup but I don’t want to sit home crying anymore so I make […]
I am back after several months seeing someone exclusive. He wasn’t into the whole – see multiple people at the same time thing – so I respected that and took myself out of the dating pool Well it didn’t work out for several reasons so here I am again – back on OKCupid, back experiencing […]
An open letter to my libido
We had previously met in passing at a work related event but didn’t really talk, just brief introductions and a passing “I follow you on everything”. I didn’t give him a second thought at the time. Later my friend told me he had been asking about me and was surprised that I was single and […]
This was another tindr date. We had been texting for a week and it was flirty and fun. So we agreed to finally meet. Unfortunately this wasn’t as awesome as the Sunday Hookup. I guess we get one of those at least in our life. I picked a favorite sushi place in the mission. He […]
So we spend a lot of time with lots of messaging back and forth. Actually almost a month of this. He has been fairly non committal on meeting again over the course of the last several weeks. At one point we talked about meeting but then it wasn’t clear if this was confirmed. So I made […]